Most Active Discussions (3) Discussions (16) | Why attractive women love jerks | 1 comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | So again, the short answer is that it's just something that "happens" inside of a women. She doesn't "choose" it.
So what is it about the "jerk" that creates this powerful, uncontrollable ATTRACTION inside of women?
Let me answer first by telling you what IT'S NOT:
It's NOT the abuse (not usually anyway). I don't believe that women are attracted to that abusive, mean, negative part of the "jerk personality".
I think that jerks JUST HAPPEN to also possess several ATTRACTIVE qualities that are SO POWERFUL that that they literally make women BLIND to the abuse... women will rationalize and excuse the abusive behavior because they are so attracted to these other qualities.
HERE IS A PARTIAL LIST OF WHAT CREATES "ATTRACTION":
-Unpredictable
-Uncontrollable
-Challenging
-Dominant
Of course, there are many more, but this will get us started for this discussion.
The qualities I've listed above, when presented correctly, trigger the natural "attraction mechanism" inside of women.
Jerks have taken natural qualities that are ATTRACTIVE to women a little "too far".
But because they're still there, the qualities trigger the attraction anyway.
So what does this mean to you?
Well, the most important thing is that it means you can still be a good guy AND attract women at the same time.
You're probably going to have to learn how to flirt in a different way, become a little more comfortable being challenging to women, etc. But in the end, you'll find that this will get you what you want, and still allow you to treat women well... all on your own terms.
It also means that instead of being the guy who women talk to about their relationship problems, and how their mean jerk boyfriend is being abusive again... you can be the guy who they're dating and sleeping with!
Yes!
Now I'd like you to take time to think about what I've said here in this newsletter.
Think about how you can cultivate the four qualities that I've mentioned above into your personality.
See if you can be a little less predictable.
Don't let outside events or women control you.
Be more of a challenge.
Stop being submissive... and get in touch with that side of you that is more dominant (I said "dominant", not "domineering").
This will give you a GREAT head-start.
By Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Why Do Attractive Girls Date Ugly Jerks, Easy ways of picking up Women | Add a comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Do You Know Why Attractive Girls Date The Ugly Jerks And Reject Nice Guys ?
Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last ?
“Absolutely”
why?
Well that's what we will be talking about....." attraction" and how it works with women.
And why “nice guys”
finish last...
I was once a nice guy... I open doors for
ladies, said Hi “please” and “thank you”,
Gave money to the ladies when requested.
But was often paid back with Rejection, and contempt.
As a “nice guy”
I was able to meet women, talk to them,
get their numbers and email address’s.
I had them going out with me, often the very same night
I however realized quite quickly that I had to enticing these women, with sometime they liked or wanted from me
like money before they agreed.
The fact of the matter is these types of dates never resulted into any stable
Or long term .
Here's why women like “jerks”... They're
spontaneous... They're exciting, and unpredictable. Those are the
exact same qualities women are attracted to.
The problem with jerks is that they're sometimes
abusive, both verbally and physically, yet I've
seen women follow complete jerks all the way
across America even at the objection of their families and
closest friends. Their Families tried everything they could to
convince them otherwise, but failed.
Here's the problem with nice guys...
They are Predictable and all their moves are often predictable
They do what the ladies expect of them.
They call when they are expected to call and
They say nice things often. They buy women drinks at the clubs.
they're polite... And In short BORING.
Women HATE boring... Attractive women get
compliments all the time, guys are nice to them
all of the time...And they get bored with them easily.
So you say what's a “nice guy” supposed to do?
Well It's easy... You don't have to act like a jerk...
Just quit being so damn nice!
Let her open her own doors for a change
When you tell her you are going to call the next day, do the opposite and call her 2 days later
Be late on your first Date and have a lousy excuse for it.
Never complement her in the first few Dates of the relationship, if she asks for a compliment by saying “ how do I look or what do you think of me “
Tell her she is just ok noting too special and later when she is not expecting it, let her know how you really feel. Do not say anything that is overly nice to her.
Don't tell women how beautiful they are...or how nice their smile is
Instead tease and crack jokes (in a friendly way) like
“Where'd you get that shirt? Baby Gap?” Women
love to be “teased” and they definitely love a
sense of humor.
Don't buy them drinks, or anything at all for
that matter, until AFTER you've sealed the deal...
Above all, CONFIDENCE is key...
It does take some practice, and it's a very fine
line to walk between being a nice guy and
“acting” enough like a jerk to generate
real attraction in women.
But I hope this help you
By Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | How to Attract Girls - Why 90% of Guys Fail.. | Add a comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | No matter how much we women try to kid ourselves and think that we’re all completely individual people and that there’s no way to really attract any woman, there are several things that never fail to attract us girls and get us interested in a given man out of all the other men in the bar / club / room. The following are the traits that appeal to and attract all women, regardless of looks, age, interests, etc.
Don’t dress like a bum - Although this might seem obvious to most and comical to some, a simple glance around any bar / club by any woman (trust me!), will reveal many completely clueless men dressed like crap. Now don’t get me wrong, this is not snobbery and the goal is not to attempt to look as rich or wealthy as possible - built simply to be well presented.
Girls go to great lengths to get ready to go out for a night on the town, for hours in advance. We lay out different outfits to decide what to wear, do our hair (often redo it several times), bathe, use creams and apply makeup, and much more - simply to get ready for an average night at a club. Now why would a girl that put in all that time and effort into looking good, go out to hook up with some guy in a dirty t-shirt and jeans with (oh what style) a baseball cap. Think again. If you look like you just fell out of bed, plan on going back there, alone. If you're serious enough to learn how to attract girls, you should at least be serious enough to take the time to look good, no exceptions!
Confidence - No matter what a girl tells you about the type of guys that she likes (“kind, sweet, thoughtful, etc.”), I’m going to let you in on the real secret of what women truly want in ANY man, and that’s confidence. It is without a doubt, the single most attractive thing to any and all women. Why do you think that so many smart, attractive and successful women go out with such jerks and put up with their lies, mistreatment, B.S. and drama? It’s not the fact that the guy’s a jerk that they like, it’s the simple fact that most jerks are confident. Being confident without being a jerk is the biggest turn on any woman could hope for.
Humor and Intrigue - All women love a mystery. This doesn’t mean you have to be aloof or rude, but at the same time realize that most guys talk way to much about themselves (and bore us to tears!). Just don’t give it all away at once, hold a few bits of information back (a cool hobby, an exciting vacation you took) and tell her at a later time. By remaining a bit mysterious you’ll not only be way ahead of the competition, you’ll also have a quality that fascinates most women.
Also, Humor is important. I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase “Keep her laughing and you‘ve got her” or something similar. Being spontaneous and funny is so sexy because you not only convey having a sense of humor, but also intelligence and confidence, all at the same time! If you’re naturally witty, this can be like Viagra to the right woman! Just remember not to go too overboard (you‘ll risk seeming “try hard”) and no joking about taboo subjects (like religion, politics, or rude humor).
By Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Facts about Americans. Did you know that . . . | 1 comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | 90% of us depend on alarm clocks to wake us.
53% of us would take advice from Anne Landers.
51% of adults dress up for a Halloween festivity.
On average, we send 38 Christmas cards every year.
20% of women consider their parents to be their best friends.
2 out of 5 have married their first love.
The biggest cause of matrimonial fighting is money.
Only 4% asked the parents’ approval for their bride’s hand.
1 in 5 men proposed on his knees.
6% propose over the phone.
71% can drive a stick-shift car.
45% of us consistantly follow the speed limit.
2/3 of us speed up at a yellow light.
1/3 of us don’t wear seat belts.
12% of men never use their car blinkers.
44% of men tailgate to speed up the person in front of them.
25% of us drive after we’ve been drinking.
4 out of 5 sing in the car.
80% of married men cheat in America.
The rest cheat in Europe.
By Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Golf | Add a comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | A couple was out golfing one day on a very, very exclusive golf course, lined with million dollar houses. On the third tee the husband said, "Honey, be very careful when you drive the ball, don't knock out any windows. It'll cost us a fortune to fix."
The wife teed up and shanked it right through the window of the biggest house on the course. The husband cringed and said, "I told you to watch out for the houses! Alright, let's go up there, apologize, and see how much this is going to cost."
They walked up, knocked on the door, and heard a voice say, "Come on in." They opened the door and saw glass all over the floor and a broken bottle lying on its side in the foyer.
A man on the couch said, "Are you the people that broke my window?" "Uh, yeah. Sorry about that." the husband replied.
"No, actually I want to thank you. I'm a genie that was trapped for a thousand years in that bottle. You've released me. I'm allowed to grant three wishes. I'll give you each one wish, and I'll keep the last one for myself."
"OK, great!" the husband said. " I want a million dollars a year for the rest of my life."
"No problem-it's the least I could do. And you, what do you want?" the genie said, looking at the wife.
"I want a house in every country of the world," she said.
"Consider it done." the genie replied.
"And what's your wish, genie?", the husband said.
"Well, since I've been trapped in that bottle, I haven't had sex with a woman in a thousand years. My wish is to sleep with your wife."
The husband looks at the wife and said, "Well, we did get a lot of money and all those houses, honey. I guess I don't care."
The genie took the wife upstairs and ravished her for two hours. After it was over, the genie rolled over, looked at the wife, and said,
"How old is your husband, anyway?"
"35" she replied.
"And he still believes in genies... that's amazing."
By Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | The Doctor | Add a comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | A woman accompanied her husband to the doctor's office. After the checkup, the doctor took the wife aside and said,"Your husband is suffering from severe, long-term stress and it's affecting his cardiovascular system. He's a good candidate for either a heart attack or a stroke. If you don't do the following four things, your husband will surely die."
"First, each morning, fix him a healthy breakfast and send him off to work in a good mood."
"Second, at lunch time, make him a warm, nutritious meal and put him in a good frame of mind before he goes back to work."
"Third, for dinner, fix an especially nice meal, and don't burden him with household chores."
"Forth, and most important for invigorating him and relieving stress, have sex with him several times a week and satisfy his every whim in bed."
On the way home in the car, the husband turned to his wife and asked "So, I saw the doctor talking to you and he sure seemed serious. What did he tell you?"
"You're going to die," she replied.
By Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Angry husband | Add a comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | A woman went to her psychiatrist because she was having severe problems with her sex life. The psychiatrist asked her many questions but did not seem to be getting a clear picture of her problems. Finally he asked, "Do you ever watch your husband's face while you are having sex?"
"Well, yes, I did once."
"Well, how did he look?"
"Very angry."
At this point the psychiatrist felt that he was really getting somewhere and he said, "Well that's very interesting, we must look into this further. Now tell me, you say that you have only seen your husband's face once during sex; that seems somewhat unusual; how did it occur that you saw his face that time?"
"He was looking through the window."
By Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Why Wives Hate Husbands and Vice Versa | Add a comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Rationality is one of the major features of the female human mind or so they say. Enter and explore some of the practical uses of this rationality.
Ladies just entering a marital or another kind of formal relationship tend to change the way they behave and it is this transformation that many men find problematic and worrying. Some of these are so funny and ironic that they seem too real to be true. But they are. In this article, you will be able to take a short glimpse into some of the more obvious behavioral patterns followed by married women.
So, what are the points of discussion that one can discover? Laughter and how one can take marital relationships and undo them using the skill of laughing and joy is one of the most important features of this essay. And, for those offended, please bear in mind that offense is not the focus or reason intended, but rather true happiness through the joy of laughter.
Here, you will be able to examine and appraise some of the more common ways in which women behave in all their dealings with their men.
1) She can and will confront her partner when she feels she has grown in size. But, for him, his reply must always be similar.
2) She will talk against her own kin. But, under no circumstances can he indulge himself in such behaviour as well.
3) Just like the fact mentioned in point number three, she will talk out against his kin as well, but here too, he must agree or else he cannot see clearly.
4) Only he can be called lazy if he forgets or fails to clear up the mess. But when she fails to do so, she will smile and claim that the reason behind this is not laziness but fatigue.
5) She is allowed to claim that if he is annoyed by her behaviour, he can leave. But, he can, under no circumstances, claim the same thing.
6) When he barks out at their kids, he must control himself because she never does the same. In her case, it is their kids who must learn how not to anger her.
7) When a Woman asks her significant other to make her a cup of coffee it is no big deal, and is expected to be done with out a complaint, but if a man asks a woman for a cup of coffee the woman will come back with "I am Not Your Slave".
8) When the partner does not respond, the woman shouts and asks him to do so. But when he does, the woman shouts and asks him to shut up.
9) A woman complains against her partner who does not give in when the matter is important to her. But, on the other hand, every matter and incident is important to the woman.
10) When the partner buys something, he is wasting money. But, when the woman purchases something, it is because she only lives once.
11) He has got to learn how to apologize to her because this is one of his major faults. She, on the other hand, is always willing to apologize. The only problem why she does not is that such an occasion has yet to arise.
12) He must spend a lot of time fueling their love, but she does not have to as she has worked hard and had a terrible day.
By Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | "Husbands Gift" | Add a comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | A married couple was in a terrible accident where the woman's face was severely burned. The doctor told the husband that they couldn't graft any skin from her body because she was too skinny. So the husband offered to donate some of his own skin.
However, the only skin on his body that the doctor felt was suitable would have to come from his buttocks.
The husband and wife agreed that they would tell no one about where the skin came from, and requested that the doctor also honor their secret. After all, this was a very delicate matter.
After the surgery was completed, everyone was astounded at the woman's new beauty. She looked more beautiful than she ever had before! All her friends and relatives just went on and on about her youthful beauty!
One day, she was alone with her husband, and she was overcome with emotion at his sacrifice. She said, "Dear, I just want to thank you for everything you did for me. How can I possibly repay you?"
"My darling," he replied, "I get all the thanks I need every time I see your mother kiss you on the cheek."
By Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Girls night out | Add a comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Two women friends had gone out for a Girls Night Out, and had been decidedly over-enthusiastic on the cocktails. Incredibly drunk and walking home they suddenly realized they both needed to pee. They were very near a graveyard and one of them suggested they do their business behind a headstone or something. The first woman had nothing to wipe with so she took off her panties, used them and threw them away. Her friend however was wearing an expensive underwear set and didn’t want to ruin hers, but was lucky enough to salvage a large ribbon from a wreath that was on a grave and proceeded to wipe herself with it. After finishing, they made their way home.
The next day the first woman’s husband phones the other husband and said, “These damn girls nights out have got to stop. My wife came home last night without her panties.” “That’s nothing,” said the other. “Mine came back with a sympathy card stuck between the cheeks of her butt that said, ‘From all of us at the Fire Station, Well never forget you!’
By Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Meow Meow | Add a comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Once there was a woman who was deeply in love with a mysterious man. Then one night she got him all alone in his office and screamed meow meow look at me now!!,
but the man didn't. So the woman took off her top and screamed meow meow look at me now!!, but he didn't. So the woman look off her pants and screamed meow meow look at me now!!,
but the man didn't. So the woman took of her bra and screamed meow meow look at me now!!,
but the man didn't.So the woman took off her g-string and screamed meow meow look at me now!! one last time. The man then turned around and yelled woof woof i'm a poof!!.
By Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Biggest Jerks | Add a comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Morty was in his usual place in the morning sitting at the table, reading the paper after breakfast. He came across an article about a beautiful actress that was about to marry a football player who was known primarily for his lack of IQ and common knowledge.
He turned to his wife with a look of question on his face. "I'll never understand why the biggest jerks get the most attractive wives."
His wife replies, "Why thank you, dear!"
By Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Killer Wife | Add a comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | One day, an immigrant from Poland entered a New York City Police
Precinct to report that his American wife was planning to kill him.
The police officer on duty was intrigued by this and he asked, "How sure
are ya that she is gonna kill ya? Did she threaten to kill ya?"
"No," replied the nervous immigrant.
"Did ya hear her tell someone else that she's gonna kill ya?"
"No."
"Did someone tell ya that your wife is gonna kill ya?"
"No."
"Then why in God's name did ya think she's gonna kill ya?" asked the
exasperated police officer.
"Because I found bottle on dresser and I think she gonna poison me!" He
handed the police officer the suspect bottle.
The police officer took one look at the label on the bottle and
started to laugh out loud. The immigrant became indignant and said,
"What so funny? Can't you see the label on bottle said, 'Polish
Remover'?"
By Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | A Woman's Random Thoughts | Add a comment » | Started by Deva (deva_18@ymail.com), Recruitment specialist at Makrotech | | Skinny people piss me off! Especially when they say things like, "You know sometimes I forget to eat, now I've forgotten my address, my mother's maiden name, and my keys. But I've never forgotten to eat. You have to be a special kind of stupid to forget to eat."
They say you shouldn't say anything about the dead unless it's good. He's dead. Good.
A friend of mine confused her Valium with her birth control pills. She had 14 kids, but she doesn't give a damn.
The trouble with some women is that they get all excited about nothing (and then they marry him.)
I read this article that said the typical symptoms of stress are eating too much, smoking too much, impulse buying and driving too fast. Are they kidding? That is my idea of a perfect day.
I know what Victoria's Secret is. The secret is that nobody older than 30 can fit into their stuff.
"If men can run the world, why can't they stop wearing neckties? How intelligent is it to start the day by tying a noose around your neck?"
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